You say am Failure, I say am Survivor
Often
in life we think we are failure especially when we don’t achieve what we aimed
for. Many of us will take it positively and say if not this time surely next
time whereas others will be depressed by their failure and they will be stuck
in this black hole where they will start believing that they are failure.
Obviously that is an extreme case.
in life we think we are failure especially when we don’t achieve what we aimed
for. Many of us will take it positively and say if not this time surely next
time whereas others will be depressed by their failure and they will be stuck
in this black hole where they will start believing that they are failure.
Obviously that is an extreme case.
Failure
starts with us believing that we have failed. Once we get failure then another,
eventually we will be stuck like those old radios on same odd frequency. Till
the time we don’t tune the right frequency we will get that disturbing sound.
The key to get over failure is by starting to think as ‘survivor’. Rather than
saying I am a failure, why not say I am survivor. When I use word ‘Say’ doesn’t
mean it’s literal sense. See yourself as survivor; believe yourself as
survivor, act like a survivor and react like a survivor.
starts with us believing that we have failed. Once we get failure then another,
eventually we will be stuck like those old radios on same odd frequency. Till
the time we don’t tune the right frequency we will get that disturbing sound.
The key to get over failure is by starting to think as ‘survivor’. Rather than
saying I am a failure, why not say I am survivor. When I use word ‘Say’ doesn’t
mean it’s literal sense. See yourself as survivor; believe yourself as
survivor, act like a survivor and react like a survivor.
Human’s
have that distinct sense of survival. We don’t give up easily and that is in
our blood. Use that sense to take power in your life. If you try to achieve
something and you don’t get it, rather than being upset think how you can get
it next time or how you can improve your life so that in future you don’t face
the same problem. Eg. If you go for job interview and you don’t get it, if you
think that you are failure, you are bound to not get through next interview.
Change the attitude to survival attitude and you will find yourself doing more practises,
looking back on your mistakes and improve your skill to get through the next
interview. The survival side of you will make you take charge of the situation
and give you ways to take actions.
have that distinct sense of survival. We don’t give up easily and that is in
our blood. Use that sense to take power in your life. If you try to achieve
something and you don’t get it, rather than being upset think how you can get
it next time or how you can improve your life so that in future you don’t face
the same problem. Eg. If you go for job interview and you don’t get it, if you
think that you are failure, you are bound to not get through next interview.
Change the attitude to survival attitude and you will find yourself doing more practises,
looking back on your mistakes and improve your skill to get through the next
interview. The survival side of you will make you take charge of the situation
and give you ways to take actions.
We
have lived our life to see the future, why can’t we take actions to make that
future better. We are survivor and we will get through it. Failure is when you
stop or give up on something. Survival is when despite not getting it, we will
try harder to improve upon it.
have lived our life to see the future, why can’t we take actions to make that
future better. We are survivor and we will get through it. Failure is when you
stop or give up on something. Survival is when despite not getting it, we will
try harder to improve upon it.
It’s
not a competition where you have to kill someone to survive or even do
something you don’t want to do to survive. This survival is not to make it on
top but it is to make out ok. Give your best shot. Don’t lose hope. Our hope to
be a better person or have a better future is based upon how well we survive in
the present.
not a competition where you have to kill someone to survive or even do
something you don’t want to do to survive. This survival is not to make it on
top but it is to make out ok. Give your best shot. Don’t lose hope. Our hope to
be a better person or have a better future is based upon how well we survive in
the present.
